You can only imagine what it might feel like to be told you have breast cancer, until it happens to you and everything turns upside down and you lose all sense of stability and direction. You will grasp at everything that feels safe and familiar and still feel like you're free falling on your own, all while trying to make some of the biggest decisions of your life. You'll also receive loads of well intended advice, some of it may even be helpful, however most of it will just